Desire is not something to hide after 30.. I am open and passionate, I know what i want
It’s something you finally understand with time!

I like adults who know what they want ... closeness, touch, warmth, passion and don’t act surprised by it. I’m not looking for games or confusion. I’m looking for connection that feels alive.

If you’re grown enough to want a woman, look at her, and say “yes, I feel this” — we might speak the same language and it means something

Endless dating without direction feels strange to me. Nice dinners, nice talks… and no movement?? Thats the worst.

I believe dating should lead somewhere, to intimacy, to shared space, to real life. Otherwise, what are we protecting ourselves from?

I don’t rush, but I don’t stand still either. I want to be happy!
If you’re also tired of “almost” relationships maybe we should talk.

The woman with the borders is often misunderstood. I feel it on myself...
I was already called cold, hard, too independent.
As if the ability to choose automatically deprives me of warmth and sensuality.

But it’s actually the opposite.
I have always believed that boundaries are not a denial of closeness.
It is a rejection of the habit of smiling when squeezed inside.
From «I don’t care» when it really hurts or does not fit.
Probably comes with experience.
But even though I have boundaries, I c...