My aunt live with her man 20 years, no wedding, no rings, and still they look like teenagers in love. I asked her why, she say “paper will not change my feelings.” And maybe she is right. Some people need big day and dress, others just need real feelings and respect. If both happy without papers – then it is already marriage of souls.

You know, I always thought honesty is best policy. But then I see people telling every tiny thought in head, and suddenly partner feels hurt, or even jealous for nothing. Like, do we really need to know ALL? Maybe little mystery is not lie, it is just… safe place for love. I think too much honesty can kill romance. Better to keep some things in your heart and share only when it helps, not when it hurts.