Attraction to the Unavailable

Why are we drawn to those who don't respond? Because unavailability sparks the imagination. We don't see a person—we create them in our minds.
Unavailable people are addictive. A man feels a thrill: to conquer, to prove himself, to penetrate where it's impossible. This isn't love—it's a drug, and a woman often becomes a mirror of his inner hunger.
Unavailability is a way to test himself. A man isn't looking for a woman in her, but for a sense of his own power. But if he one day realizes it's not about her, but about him, he'll stop hunting and start choosing.
And honestly, do you want a woman—or just someone who's not yours yet?