Attraction as a weapon

There are women who don't seduce—they infect. Their energy isn't in the body, but in the feeling of being on the edge. They don't flirt; they seem to read minds. A man feels threatened and aroused at the same time.
It's not about sex—it's about control over his attention. She enters his head, and everything else ceases to exist.
He can get angry, avoid, laugh—but he always comes back.
Such a woman doesn't take—she creates a void that he wants to fill.
She doesn't promise anything, but makes him wait.
And the worst thing is, he himself doesn't understand where his desire ends and her game begins.
Have you ever felt like someone is controlling your attraction without touching you?