Rude and brutal is better than kind and polite??

Some men say they like a “good girl,” but watch carefully… who do they chase? The one who rolls her eyes, ignores their messages and acts like she’s the queen of the universe. Meanwhile, the girl who is kind, soft and caring becomes a friend… or worse is a Plan B.

Do guys really enjoy the challenge that much?

I used to be nice. Too nice. And it felt like the more sweet I was, the more invisible I became. But honestly, I don’t want to be rude or cold just because someone else can’t handle a woman who genuinely cares.

If kindness isn’t trendy, fine. I’m not trying to fit trends. I’d rather find one man who appreciates loyalty, warmth and passion than a dozen who only respond to drama.

But tell me… what do you prefer?
A woman who makes a scene?
Or a woman who makes you feel wanted and alive?