love is a POISON

when I look at some relations I can't hide my disturbance! some people only torture each other being together
constant fights, they compete with each other, checking who has stronger nervous system... it looks terrible and I bet it feels terrible
I dont know why are they together, may be they like what is going on?
anyway I dont want such relations, I believe in relations when both grow together, feel like a team, have common hobbies and accept each other
may be I am old fashioned but I still hope that I will have exactly such relations at least I will do my best to make them like this