Control as a Form of Fear

Men like to say they need to be in control of everything. The situation. Their emotions. The woman. But control is a subtle form of panic. It stems from the fear of losing power, of appearing weak, of being rejected.
The paradox is that true strength begins precisely where a man relaxes. When he lets go of controlling a woman, he begins to see her.
And a woman who senses that she's not a prison, but a space, opens up. And she becomes dangerous—because now she's real.
Some men sense this intuitively and are afraid. Others fall in love with the chaos she brings.
And what kind are you—the one who holds on, or the one who lets go to see what happens next?